Screened as part of NZIFF 2020

Lessons of Love 2019

Directed by Małgorzata Goliszewska, Kasia Mateja

This surprisingly touching romantic odyssey documents charismatic Jola, a stylish sexagenarian embracing newly won love and liberation after an abusive, decades-long marriage.

Poland In Polish with English subtitles
72 minutes VOD


Anna Stylińska


Anna Stylińska
Małgorzata Goliszewska


Kasia Mateja
Mateusz Czuchnowski
Tymon Tykwiński


Alan Zejer


IDFA 2019; Sydney 2020

When the title of Polish documentary Lessons of Love first appears, it seems ironic. Jola, a strong-willed and intimidatingly fashionable Polish woman nearing her seventies, has just fled her Italian country home and her four-decade marriage to a truly hideous man. Compellingly captured by co-directors Małgorzata Goliszewska and Kasia Mateja, we follow Jola to her hometown where a relationship with another man begins to flourish. It’s here that the title sheds its irony as the tremulous early throes of true love begin to manifest for the first time in their lives.

A thrillingly woozy romance, Lessons of Love excels in its refusal to adhere to expectations, much like its central subject. The composed filmmaking captures the spirit of a woman rebelling against the conservatism of her generation, where divorces don’t happen and women don’t speak out against their husbands. Jola is a tremendous subject, her magnetic presence allowing only occasional glimpses of vulnerability; the vulnerability of a woman opening herself up to something new. The relationship between Jola and her new amour Wojtek is a marvel, captured in warm, candid conversations by its patient observers. — Tom Augustine

About the Filmmakers
Małgorzata Goliszewska and Kasia Mateja are Polish filmmakers with a background in experimental film and short documentaries. Lessons of Love is their first feature film collaboration as directors.